ceph: make ceph_msg_new return NULL on failure; clean up, fix callers

ceph: make ceph_msg_new return NULL on failure; clean up, fix callers

Returning ERR_PTR(-ENOMEM) is useless extra work.  Return NULL on failure
instead, and fix up the callers (about half of which were wrong anyway).

Signed-off-by: Sage Weil <sage@newdream.net>