md: move io accounting out of personalities into md_make_request

md: move io accounting out of personalities into md_make_request

While I generally prefer letting personalities do as much as possible,
given that we have a central md_make_request anyway we may as well use
it to simplify code.
Also this centralises knowledge of ->gendisk which will help later.

Signed-off-by: NeilBrown <neilb@suse.de>